What Grandparents Uniquely Offer

Research by Danielsbacka and Tanskanen in Finland found that grandparental investment, time, play, warmth, stories, significantly predicts grandchildren's wellbeing and developmental outcomes. Grandparents offer something distinct from parents: time without the relentless weight of the parenting role, a different vocabulary of stories and games, and a living connection to the past that children find uniquely fascinating.

The intergenerational play relationship also benefits grandparents: research by Arpino and Bordone shows that regular grandchild care is associated with better cognitive function and slower cognitive decline in grandparents. Real play is good for everyone in the room.

Key citation

Danielsbacka, M. & Tanskanen, A.O. (2012). Grandparental childcare in Europe. European Journal of Ageing · Arpino, B. & Bordone, V. (2014). Does grandparenting pay off? European Journal of Ageing

Bridging the Screen-Time Gap

Many parents find that their screen-time approach differs from grandparents' instincts to offer tablets or television as a treat. The evidence-based approach to this is: provide grandparents with positive alternatives (specific Jaques toys that are grandparent-friendly), share the free grandparent's guide, and frame the preference positively: "She loves playing with her wooden fox when she visits, can you set it out with her?"

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